The Invisible Contracts You Never Signed But Have Honored Your Whole Life
Women abide by invisible contracts instilled in childhood by everyone in their environment. Here’s the framework and the exit.
Midlife Movement Without the “Gym Bro” Vibe
Grueling workouts to build muscle made me inflamed, exhausted and took me out of life, so I quit listening to “experts”. Here’s what I do instead.
I Stopped Asking for Permission and Approval. Nobody Died.
I stopped shrinking to keep the peace and found my voice and my power. Start acting like you deserve a seat at the adult table.
Exhaustion Is Your Body’s Check Engine Light: Stop Ignoring It
I thought I wasn’t sleeping enough but it turns out I was neglecting my own needs so other capable adults could be happy.
I’m Not Sorry, I’m Just Shrinking Myself to Avoid Conflict
Women are socialized to shrink themselves. Don’t apologize for having an opinion or for existing. Learn to break the “I’m sorry” habit.
You Call It Love, I Call It Emotional Labor
Being a good wife and mother means carrying the load for everyone to show how much you care. It also explains why you’re exhausted.