I’m Not Really Sorry, I’m Just Shrinking Myself to Avoid Conflict
Women are socialized to shrink themselves. Don’t apologize for having an opinion or for existing. Learn to break the “I’m sorry” habit.
The Myth of the Natural Diplomat: The Contract of Peacekeeping
The societal pattern telling women to please everyone at the cost of their own wellbeing.
The Myth of the Natural Multi-Tasker: The Invisible Contract of Competence
The societal contract telling women they must carry it all without complaining because it is only theirs to carry.
When I Stopped Asking for Permission to Exist
I stopped shrinking to keep the peace and found my voice and my power. Start acting like you deserve a seat at the adult table.
When Estrogen Was the Only Thing Keeping Me Nice
My tolerance for people’s bullshit dropped along with my estrogen levels. Now saying what I think has biological support.